Pok Fu Lam


Pok Fu Lam Village is one of 2 ancient villages left in Hong Kong. It is 200 years old and surrounded by mountains and high rise apartments. The striking dichotomy between it and its surroundings really helps exemplify the massive change that urban areas in China have seen, and  how different the cultural customs and closeness of living in a village has shifted now that they isolate themselves behind locked metal doors 30 floors in the air.

With some help from couchsurfing, I was able to find an American guy living in this village. He is the only known foreigner to live in this village, and he is nice enough to open his small home to travellers who want the real Chinese experience. I decided to stay with him because I like to feel what it would have been like to grow up and live in “poorer” areas or parts of the world. I have been blessed with a rather large family and we always stayed in the high middle class status. We never went hungry, we always had a big home, 2 or more cars, and while we didn’t take many expensive vacations or have name brand clothes, or expensive toys and electronics, we typically got whatever we needed or wanted growing up. When I moved to China in 2010 my eyes were opened to a whole new way of living. I decided to photograph the “real” China, in hopes to show my very spoiled, and ungrateful younger siblings what the world could have been to them, to help them appreciate what they have and not take the little things for granted. Example 1: sewage and fresh water.

Being 200 years old, the sewage system is very primative as well. You can clearly see that right next to the door of this man’s home is a drainage pipe. I didn’t think much of it at first, until I saw them hose it down and scrape all the toilet paper away from the drains so that it could keep flowing. I hear that in the middle of summer, when the humidity is 97% and the temperature is peaking at 37 C there is nothing more disgusting than choking on the stench of the air outside your door. Example 2: A stable home built with materials not trash.

I saw homes I can’t believe were still standing. i swear you could peel the flimsy metal roofs off with one hand. The inside structure was not any better either. Just 2 days before I arrived, the staircase down to my host’s toilet/kitchen gave out under him and nearly broke his hip. The staircase to his bedroom is just as unstable right now, with one side not being nailed down the base, and the other side clinging on by one terribly placed nail. Example 3: Privacy.

In this village, not only are the doors to each home super close to one another,  sometimes they share the same bathroom or kitchen. When you walk through corridors like the one in the last photo, you really feel like you are walking through their living rooms because on the left they have their bed room and on the right, the bathroom and kitchen. Most of the time the doors are left open and anyone is free to just come in or to say hi. I felt awkward walking past, and didn’t want to risk upsetting anyone with a picture of their private home…even if it felt like it wasn’t private. Example 4: small living space.

Privacy is pretty much nonexistent in a village like this one. These 2 photos were taken of my host’s home. The first is the super small kitchen/ living room/ entrance way. They sit in wicker chairs and pull up small stools to put food on and go outside and down to their kitchen to cook and grab plates to go back and sit in a crowded circle and eat. When I arrived, I was amazed by how many people were living in this 2 bedroom apartment. 3 slept in the bedroom in the last photo, and upstairs one slept on a sofa, one on a mattress on the floor, and one on a bed. 6 people!!! What amazed me most was the kitchen/bathroom that I forgot to get a picture of. The way it was designed, you walked out the front door and across the way to another door that goes straight downstairs into a kitchen, which is just a hot plate and a sink away from being just a closet. The bathroom was too small for me to stretch my arms out in any direction, and the shower head was directly over the toilet. Smallest bathroom I’ve ever been in. The kitchen and bathroom is shared by another family as well, so you often wait a long time to use the toilet.

All in all, life in a village was pleasant, but i doubt I could commit myself to longer than a week. I am so grateful to my host for opening up his home to me so that I could get a taste for how villagers or 200 year old citizens once lived. I appreciate the lifestyle, the openness they have towards one another, the simplicity, and the strong cultural values they still uphold, but I don’t think I could permanently adjust. I am amazed by how untouched it is from the change around it, and I really hope it stays just as it is and doesn’t give way to more isolating high rise apartments, because their is so much we can still learn from its past and what it offers.




Unique jewelry, handmade with love


Adara’s blog | uniqueness,taste,handmade with love,personality.

My best friend Anca runs this website, and makes all the jewelry by hand in her humble skyrise apartment in Beijing when she isn’t teaching Chinese babies how to babble in English. Check out the website, and splurge a little :p Shop here: http://blog.adara.ro/

Raspberry-strawberry dark chocolate Valentines cookies


Raspberry-strawberry dark chocolate cookies

Pink Valentine’s cookies: Raspberry-strawberry dark chocolate


1/2 cup unsalted butter, softened
3/4 cup sugar
1 egg
1 cup of finely chopped frozen or fresh raspberries, blackberries, and strawberries (with juice)
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
1 3/4 cup plain flour
½ teaspoon baking soda
¼ teaspoon baking powder
¼ teaspoon salt
100 grams chopped blackberry or strawberry dark chocolate
Raspberry jam (for topping)
Preheat oven to 200 degrees C
Cream butter and sugar. Add egg, chopped fruit, and vanilla extract.
Sift together the dry ingredients. Stir the dry ingredients into the butter mixture until combined; stir in chocolate chunks.
Roll into balls. Use your fingers to flatten onto a non-stick baking sheet 2 inches apart. Bake for 8-10 minutes. Cool for five minutes and transfer to a cooling rack.
After cooling, spread a dab of raspberry jam on top to add flavor and color.
Makes 2 dozen cookies

Chunking chocolate like Tom’s brombær adds great fruit flavor while providing various sized chocolate bites into the cookie makes each bite super interesting. You can see the great texture it leaves.

The boyfriend adored these fruity chocolate cookies so much, we ate all 2 dozen in one night, and now I can’t wait to make more 🙂

Suspending contracts, saving money


The last few days I’ve been super busy preparing for my hasty departure from Denmark to China. I have been struggling with how I will obtain my visa, since the embassy in Copenhagen won’t grant me a visa because I’m only a tourist here, so I have had to redirect my travels to Hong Kong so I can buy a visa there and take the 26 hour train journey northward to Beijing. What a nuisance. Today I had to contact my annoying phone company because my 3 month suspension is about to expire and I don’t get service here or in Asia, and I don’t want to pay $100 dollars a month not to use something. If anyone is familiar with how Verizon or any of its competition likes to run business, you know that they require a nasty early contract breachment fee. Frankly, I think it is stupid to charge someone close to $200 dollars to get rid of some shitty service they no longer want. I am extremely tight on money, and have no desire to pay those bastards anything to get rid of their service. So, I decided to find a way around the cancellation fee, and this is what I discovered:

How to get out of paying your monthly Verizon Wireless service AND avoid an early cancellation fee while you are traveling or just really tight on money:

1. Call Customer Service or just dial *611 from your phone and select the option to temporarily suspend service

2. Every 90 days, remember to call back and simply resuspend your phone if necessary. You can call the same number to reactivate your phone.

They charge you 0.00 to suspend your phone and send you monthly 0.00 balances to your email so you know that they aren’t charging your account. When I spoke to the kind agent on the phone today she told me that it is possible to do this, for as long as you need without ever being charged. You only have to remember to call every 90 days to resuspend your account free of charge. So, while I’m not sure exactly when I will ever return to the States, I now don’t have to pay a single cent for a service I’m not using, and I don’t have to pay their money grubbing asses any money to cancel and then reopen an account. The best part about all this, is that you get to keep your phone number, and you just finish out the number of months left on your contract, when you are able to.

How to prevent or shorten a cold


I have a weird knack for avoiding the flu. When I was a kid I used to carry a can of lysol around the house and douse anything my siblings touched when they were ill. I’ve gotten more sophiscated over the years, and only until today realized, I haven’t been ill in over 10 years.

Yesterday, I felt something coming on. My throat was on fire and my body ached all over. But this morning, I was running 3 miles in -10 C weather and felt as good as ever. My secret? Hold on to your hats ladies and gentlemen…

Broccoli and Blueberries

Every since I could remember my go to foods have always been steamed broccoli and blueberry juice. Last night however, I had to make due with a slight variation to my usual remedies.

I made a powerful nose clearing, throat soothing soup from 1 head of broccoli, 3 carrots, and 2 potatoes, boiled in vegetable boulon. Voila! I soaked up all the juices with a fresh baguette and then enjoyed yummy blueberries in yogurt for a healthy and naturally sweet dessert. The most important part of the night however was the tea. Tea is my sworn friend for life. My extensive stay in China opened my awareness to the powerful effects of tea. If you ever feel anything but 100%, green tea is my first suggestive cure. Let me explain briefly why I am such a huge supporter of green tea.

Green tea is the reason I and millions of other people stay so healthy. There is a staggering fact I quickly learned from locals about their famous tea leaves. China has the HIGHEST smoking rate, but the LOWEST lung cancer rate. The average Chinese person drinks on average, 1 liter of green tea a day. Coincidence? I think not. The antioxidants in green tea can do amazing things for smokers and non smokers alike. I have also come to understand a bit about Chinese medicine, and am now a firm believer in the power of hot water. Drink nothing but hot water. It is amazing for your digestive tract.

If you find my tips helpful, please share them with everyone you know. Being sick is everyone’s least favorite thing in the world, and these suggestions have been proven to make you better fastest, without the use of harmful medicines. There’s a reason I never missed a single day of school or work…broccoli and blueberries 🙂

A Killer Introduction


First impressions are everything, especially in cyberworld. Since you have no clue who I am, or why I am so awesome, I will help you understand.
I am not new to the blogging world. I have a very extensively kept blog on Livejournal under the same name. Feel free to read those postings if you care to, but they are nothing like what I hope to keep here. I came to realize today that all my writings over the last few years have been put out there on the internet, and yet it hasn’t been open for everyone. What is the point of keeping a blog or a journal on the internet if it is not meant to be read? You might as well keep a pen and paper diary under your pillow and scribble in it everynight about your thoughts. That’s worthless bullshit. I want to use my extensive knowledge and my ability to entertain, to rock the world.
You see, I’m not a quiet person, not by a long shot. I crave socialization, and since I’m constantly on the move, it is hard for me to have consistent daily interactions with folks. Therefore, I have turned to the internet to satsify my longings for friendship and intellectual stimulation. I like to pick up my life and move across countries a few times a year, usually with no purpose and especially with no plan. I don’t care to think about how I will get by everyday, I just know that I will. I am currently in Denmark, living quite comfortably, but I have an itch to transplant my life again, already. I only just arrived here 2 months ago, after abruptly leaving my job and all my stuff in New Orleans and catching the first flight out with my last $80 dollars in my pocket. Not the wisest decision I’ve made, but by far the most satisfying. You see, my boyfriend lives here, and after a year and a half of constantly traveling around the world to see each other for a few weeks at a time, I gave in and left everything behind to be with him. It has been great to spend so much time with each other, but I can’t quiet the beast inside me that says ‘time to go.’ So, on to my next stop….Beijing…hopefully anyhow. I only have $3.58 dollars to my name, and as far I remember, that’s not enough for a plane ticket and a visa. But I always scrape by.

So, if I have interested you in some small way, I do hope you will come back for more, becuase there is so much more, oh so much….like this little gem I found from my time in Huzhou, China:

Smashing watermelons